Nigeria’s twitter user with handle @udala_ accused popular Nigeria blogger, PR guru, & founder of Olodo Nation or Unilag Olodo, Ibrahim Salawu, of rapping her.
The twist started when a Twitter user, @BiggieMonzie disclosed meaning of a “ movement ” currently happening in most Nigerian University, they tag as “R and B”, which translates to “Rape and Beg”..
“There’s a “movement” in most Nigerian Uni called “R and B”, when i found out the meaning i felt sick. And some niggaz actually confess to engaging in the “movement” with pride. Beats me.”
For those wondering it’s “Rape and Beg” where a man will rape and then start begging after “I just love you so much”, “Its the devil that took over me”, “I feel like dying I have never done this please forgive me unless I’ll kill myself”.
“The man is foolish but the most foolish person is the girl that will accept his apology and not tell” a user responded to the above tweets;
In a lengthy thread on Twitter user @udala_ narrate every details how she met Unilag Olodo through one of her close friend, and how he raped her, and began begging her.
In light of this, along with recent events, I'd like to call someone out for rape. Please turn on my post notifications, thank you. https://t.co/nQaW2GVynP
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
The man is foolish but the most foolish person is the girl that will accept his apology and not tell
— A Seasoned Professional (@KatYoncey) November 24, 2017
I'm going to @ him at the end of this thread, but first the story behind it. I'll try as much as possible to include every material detail
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
I met this guy through someone I considered my best friend, who in turn met him through her own boyfriend. He had previously come to see me in school with the two of them, bought me dinner, etc, we talked and I thought he was a nice guy so we became friends over a short time
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Me and my best friend had talked about going to see him and spend the weekend at his place because school was boring and he had free Wi-Fi etc, she went to his place a number of times and I never had time because school work was hectic.
Finally, one Saturday I had time.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
It's sad that I no longer have screenshots of my chat with him, but we agreed that I would spend the night with him and be back the following day. And we did agree that I was visiting on a strictly platonic level.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
He even made me feel a bit foolish for suggesting that he'd want sex if I visit, so I assumed he was sane. He ordered an uber and I was on my way.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Uber got to the Island and got lost looking for his house, we finally found him and he asked the uber to drop us at the closest domino's. It was already late by now and domino's was nearly closing. We ordered pizza and ice cream and waited for another uber.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
By the time we got to his place I was already sleepy, and he didn't seem to find any entertainment (we were supposed to watch HTGAWM online but he couldn't find a good site) so I just decided to eat and sleep. We were on the same bed but slept on opposite sides at first
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
But then he started getting all cuddly and I wasn't comfortable for a number of reasons, so I pushed him away a couple of times. Then he begged and said it would just be cuddling and I let him.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Didn't take too long for cuddling to become another thing, started touching sensitive areas of my body and moving down my pants. It wasn't even hard for him because I removed my jeans and changed into shorts. The entire time I'm pushing him away, he'll pause, then continue
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Got to a point I left the bed for him, I even told him I'll be just as comfortable sleeping in the bath tub, then he came back and begged me to sleep on the bed again. So I did, and he left me for a while.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
But again he started touching me, took off the shorts completely and started giving me oral, that's when I really started struggling and fighting him off, mostly because I had a boyfriend and I never wanted it to get to that point.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Didn't take long for him to slide in, there was already saliva all over my vagina, and from there crying and begging couldn't help me. He was looking at me the entire time, but it was like my face was invisible. He didn't stop until he came. Then when he was done he left me
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Then he started begging me, telling me he never planned for this to happen, and that he really likes me and he just wanted to spend time with me. After a while I left the corner where I had been crying and I went and locked myself in his bathroom. He started calling and texting
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Threatening to break down the door so we can talk. Talk about what?
The following day was Sunday, I came out before 7 I think. Spent the night in the bathroom blaming myself, wondering what I'll tell my boyfriend, etc. When I came out he continued his epistle from last night.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Telling me he likes me etc. I told him to call me an uber, he did. I didn't say anything to him, I do swear that I would shame him, for me it was just "pass my card. Pass my jeans" etc. I didn't even know what to say, or if talking was even enough.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Before I left he gave me money for uber and postinor. I got to school and went to church. Came back and after a while I told my boyfriend and we talked about it, and I had to go around the hostel pretending I didn't know why my eyes were swollen.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
I blocked him.
I told my friend about it, and instead of her to relate with me and be understanding, she started investigating me, making me blame myself and doubt the validity of my story.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Instead of confronting him herself, she made me unblock him so she could hear his explanation. She made me reach out to my rapist, I don't know which is more traumatic between being raped and being forced to reach out to the rapist.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Too bad she's not on twitter, but I'll still mention him.
When I reached out to him he said I'm painting him as a villain, and I actually let him know that I can take action against him, not as a threat, but as a fact. He kept saying he never intended for it to happen
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
He had the guts to ask if we could still be cool. I actually regret not speaking up early, this happened in June this year. When I had enough of his excuses I blocked him again. I've since lost that number so he can't contact me on it.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
I spoke about this yesterday with @OtunbaBillz and he went to his dm. This is what @OtunbaBillz told me he said about the whole thing pic.twitter.com/GavP4xT2vh
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Lol I'm blackmailing him, for what? Money? A 5.0CGPA? He kept saying he never intended for it to get this far and that this looks like a setup. Ok.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Ladies and gentlemen, the man I'm referring to is @unilagolodo
I know a lot of you follow him. You'd know him.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
I'm tired of trying to forgive something like this. I deserve peace too, before I'll hear one day that he's happily married, and the wound opens up all over again. I feel like if I come out with this, I'll feel like a little justice has been done.
— . (@udala__) November 25, 2017
Here are Nigerians reaction toward that rape accusation against Unilag Olodo and Olodo himself responses: 
He gave you head??? And you couldn’t run away or kick his head??? Abeg stop playing the victims card from your story I think you actually wanted the sex but trying to trend because everyone has been making a thread on rape?? You spent the night in his house in the same bed???
— Stay True (@Verytrue100) November 25, 2017
https://twitter.com/raphtopaz/status/934418871519457281
@Nazygold2 I said this same thing without reading this shit. Women have gone to another level
— CAADFAST Wears (@CaadfastWears) November 25, 2017
https://twitter.com/femi_dapson/status/934725655782141952
Then you allowed him to cuddle you, which made him think he can have access to you… when he was penetrating you why can't you use force to punish him away that means you were enjoying it…
— bee💖 (@bhlessing_me) November 26, 2017